Tips

[OutcastedOutcast]

1) Allow yourself to be lazy

Do just enough to get by everyday. Hustle culture is for those who need extra motivation to work harder. Incels even if they work hard, don’t often reap most of the results a normie would. Not that hard work is bad or being lazy is good, its more so about being efficent and being able to sustain oneself for the many decades to come.
You are living like this with no friends, girlfriend, social safety net or anything whatsoever. You’ll burn yourself out in less than a year if you grind and believe hustling will change your life.

2)Have something to look forward to

Video game, tv show, etc. Don’t be ashamed of what you liked, embrace it.

3) Expect the worse with normies

When you go out, understand that its always going to be bad. Its ok to be anxious about receiving bad treatment from normies but with time you will adapt and you’ll learn to go out and embrace this reality hopefully.

4)Try to enjoy your own company

I know this is very hard for some but its well worth it. It may take a while but it helps make being alone not too bad. Occupy yourself with something even if it feels weird and progressively learn to be alone overtime in the years to come.
Preferably try to occupy yourself with something that doesn’t rely on anybody.
Try to do things solo. If you get too attached to the idea of only having fun by having normie friends, you’ll always be chasing after something you’ll never get.


5) Try to let go of your negative emotions

Its totally normal to want to go ER on all the normies who’ve hurt you and continue hurting you. But that hate in you, doesn’t hurt them but you sadly...
Its ok to feel angry or sad but its not good to feel that for the rest of your life.
But there’s good news! Most psychologists’ method to helping incels DO NOT WORK. Highly reccomend venting it out to yourself whether it be writing it on forums or in private to yourself. Let it out and hopefully with time you will let it go.
The best emotion is to be neutral. Your neither too positive or negative to be controlled emotionally. You are aware and calm.

6) Embrace Failure

An incel cannot go without failing if he wants to navigate in life.
Its ok to fail, your an incel after all. Its like getting a single ant to lift you up into the air with its sheer strength. Its just not possible. There’s nothing wrong with failing when you don’t have the resources in life to succeed. Normies are born into success and even when they don’t they are able to pick themsleves up because they live in a world catered for them.
You don’t have to enjoy failing but you should aim to embrace it as something that’s a part of an incels’ life so you don’t get too shocked.

7) Treat fellow incels with decency if possible

Your free to treat normies with blood for blood but with incels try to go for a more diplomatic route.
Keep your hands clean. Do not ever backstab another incel for an immoral reason. Treat your fellow brocels with human decency. You don’t have to be a door mat to unfriendly incels who are toxic and can still hold your ground freely but be relaxed and learn to go with the hits and jabs if other incels don’t like you for whatever reason. Most incels make a mistake in letting a bad apple of an incel control them emotionally, its normal but be cautioned.

8) Everybody cares

Your told that nobody cares about you. Well they don’t actually. But they care about how you look and appear to them in public.
So in acutality they don’t care about your wellbeing but they care about how they can pick you apart.
Understand that normies are always looking for easy targets, learn to protect yourself if it be possible. Pick up self-defence and maybe even hit the gym to bulk up.

9) Try to be brave

It takes a lot of courage to be an incel. Most normies assume incels are just men who 'hate women.'
Yes some may and the type of men they are thinking about are normie men who hate women, they exist too.
But they do not acknowledge the men who become hateful to foids because they are hated by foids...
So not only are incels misunderstood, they are slandered and hated.
Its not easy when you notice normies staring you down, when they gossip about you, try to destroy your life in many ways. When they mock you for living a lonely life.
But take pride in this. They wouldn't last a day in your shoes. Remember that. And also never commit suicide. Never do that. That is the best way to hand over a big win to them without putting up a decent fight. Please fight, not just for yourself but for the other incels who lost the battles in the past. Be strong my brocels.

[VH911]

10) defend yourself, never ever rope

[Male]

11) Skip the other 10 and return to monke.

[TheRapist]

10) defend yourself, never ever rope

it doesn't matter whether we rope or not, in fact; as much as normies make it out to be: the lives of people are insignificant
and we are overpopulated
That being said if you live to spit on normies who want you to quit, you have my uttermost respect

[AmonGoeth]

Great tips comrade, we must be resolute and Stoic, yet open and collaborative in this brutal incelphobic world.

We should take our pleasures wherever we can have them, yet also work to better our condition. We need money to survive and build a true movement. We will either sway normies to our side or make them our pawns, or otherwise enslave them or exterminate them in due time.

We must imagine each of ourselves a warrior monk in our daily lonesome lives, as well as mujahideen warriors in common cause with fellow incels and anti-feminists.