Everything is easier for couples, even money, as they can share expenses and labor to save on expenses. They split living costs, have dual income, get tax benefits from marriage, more energy and time to cook food at home instead of spending more eating out, etc. There's a whole cultural privilege that sexhavers 'need' and 'deserve' more money and better jobs to support their families—meanwhile incels get treated like shit and are expected to be hyper productive work horses. And also couples have two sets of parents to rely on if things get tough. Many more such advantages I probably missed you can mention.
As incels, though, we only have our own labor and wealth to secure our survival; we have no partner to rely on, and we are only in the beginning stages of forming a true mutual collective for incels to rely on each other. Many incels are neets and rely on their parents, but even then you must suffer the constant fear that your parents can turn against you and make you homeless at a moment's notice if they so wish, and you have no legal recourse. Disability payments are typically very slim and miserable to live on, especially in shitholes like the USA where it can be very hard to get on it. Let alone the 3rd world.
Despite our disadvantages, it is all the more important for us to attain wealth for this reason. Wealth is power in this broken twisted society we live in. And it is important for our movement as well, because wealth can buy attention and users and political sway. Elon Musk bought X and completely changed the discourse on that platform. Imagine if we could do the same!
Yet it always comes to the question of one's individual priorities whether "the juice is worth the squeeze." Why work hard if I'm gonna be depressed regardless and end up killing myself early? But then what if I don't kill myself and screwed myself over the last 5-10 years using that as a mental cope instead of making money to better my life. In my case I lost out of a semester of university due to inceldom-induced mental illness and that alone feels like that put me way behind the moggers I went to high school with making more money than me and having more sex than me.
Idk man it feels so fucking stupid everything revolves around arbitrary slices of paper that have no intrinsic value. And I don't even get to fuck pussy as a consolation for wagecucking my ass off. Makes me want to ER
