Fitting In Nowhere Pill
Posted: 18 Aug 2024, 19:13
This is one of the most painful pills.
Reckon that even the most hardcore rugged men out there who preach being 'a man' in the face of problems would buckle their knees as they realize that when one finds himself being unable to fit in anywhere and everywhere he practically is chasing his own tail.
1) Self esteem cannot be possible without positive validation from others.
"Humans become driven by a desire for recognition and approval regardless of whether or not that recognition is due to something that is truly worthy of respect. At its worst, people think nothing of tearing others down so that they might feel superior themselves."
Self love is only for those who receive love from others. One cannot learn to love himself if he has not yet tasted it.
2) The definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result.
For incels/truecels who suffer from the fitting in nowhere pill they will never be able to fit in with even the lowest of other incels in denial geeks/nerds men. Would go as far as to say that even the most similar incel in denial is still leagues away in true suffering from the likes of the martyred men as we are. There is plenty of footage online of even the most nerdy/geeky hobbies full of low inhibited low tier normies who mog the majority of incels/truecels in neurotypical traits and even at times looks.
Goodluck trying to fit in with these types, they'll chew on you and spit you out. There really is no place to go when your suffering from the fitting in nowhere pill. No amount of expensive therapy sessions where they try to dose you on SSRIs which causes all sorts of irreversible brain damage or doing anything does much.
Making effort to self-improve while in the fitting in nowhere pill is futile. It only appears as an illusion to think that you are making progress. But what really happens is in the big picture, the incel who is destined for this fate is still circling essentially just with a few extra steps. All in all, no amount of self-improvement of any sorts can heal the pain of not being able to fit in with anybody. Quite literally you are alone. Most men are not incels. Being an incel is much more than just being unattractive. It is a state of constant rejection from both man and woman. Every social interaction you have with others are negative. People treat you like a disease and will not entertain you. You lose out on social networking and any form of climbing up the social ladder.
Incels who attempt to break out of the Blackpill because they assume that its the mindset that causes them the pain of this life rather than accepting that such a life is caused for a reason. It is not normal to be mistreated by others regularly. Most normies exagerrate their problems. Most normies do not have the horrible lives they talk about online. Those are cherrypicked exceptions that are meant to draw in views and clicks. Most normies are living a good life with proper validation. They do not need to try hard in life. They do not need to keep trying to fit in and attempting to find a way around fitting in. They just fit in just like that without effort.
There cannot be any result because there is no solutions. Every 'solution' the incel/truecel tries is just a deadend. He backtracks to square one and tries it again. But of course, the incel/truecel doesn't want to be seen as lazy by society who judges him so he has to appear like he's trying in life out of fear of the public's thoughts on him. Most incels/truecels in this stage end up wasting their life away trying to do the impossible.
The topic of trying to fit in comes up all the time in blackpilled incel spaces. But its just hopes and dreams that will never happen. Best to accept it early on than later.
3. Likely reasons for suffering
You ask yourself 'why me?'
A) You are uglier than you think and see yourself in the mirror
B) You are extremely neurodivergent
Both are nearly impossible to fix or mask respectively. Requiring plastic surgery and as for neurodivergent traits, that's forever.
Even incels in denial can still larp as normies at times. Incels/truecels stick out like sore thumb in public.
4. No shame in failing
Again, even the most rugged tough men in the world whether it be olympians or soldiers or more would absolutely be crushed by such a lifestyle. There is no shame in failing while living under such a life. Plenty of good looking normies have a mental breakdown over the most simplistic petty thing.
5. Actual incel/truecels will experience this not fakecels/incels in denial
Hence why most 'incels' on forums who end up leaving and just so happen to join such forums in their teenagehood and have their own social cliques in real life and a actual life to pursue end up proving once again that the majority of incel forums are full of men who do no experience this. It is either one or the other. You cannot go through this and be a normie. No normie is exiled to this extent unless for very extreme situations. Normies wouldn't be a normie if they endured such a thing. Would go as far as to say that more than 50% of any given incel forums in the past, present and future are littered with fakecel/incels in denial who end up leaving after finishing their 'edgy' phase.
Ultimately be kind to one another fellow incels/truecels. This isn't going to get any better. We must show each other positive validation to make up for the lack of it from normies and society. Be kind to one another not just for the sake of it but to let the pain and inner wounds heal from the past. Life is hard enough. Show your fellow incels/truecels patience even if they test you and realize we truly are alone. Sending love and peace to all. The journey is impossible but somehow we are still here standing. That's our proof of strength against a society that hates us. Do not fall too deep into hate, its a trap by normies meant to steal your time,energy and ultimately life while they could care less about you ending up being bitter.
Reckon that even the most hardcore rugged men out there who preach being 'a man' in the face of problems would buckle their knees as they realize that when one finds himself being unable to fit in anywhere and everywhere he practically is chasing his own tail.
1) Self esteem cannot be possible without positive validation from others.
"Humans become driven by a desire for recognition and approval regardless of whether or not that recognition is due to something that is truly worthy of respect. At its worst, people think nothing of tearing others down so that they might feel superior themselves."
Self love is only for those who receive love from others. One cannot learn to love himself if he has not yet tasted it.
2) The definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result.
For incels/truecels who suffer from the fitting in nowhere pill they will never be able to fit in with even the lowest of other incels in denial geeks/nerds men. Would go as far as to say that even the most similar incel in denial is still leagues away in true suffering from the likes of the martyred men as we are. There is plenty of footage online of even the most nerdy/geeky hobbies full of low inhibited low tier normies who mog the majority of incels/truecels in neurotypical traits and even at times looks.
Goodluck trying to fit in with these types, they'll chew on you and spit you out. There really is no place to go when your suffering from the fitting in nowhere pill. No amount of expensive therapy sessions where they try to dose you on SSRIs which causes all sorts of irreversible brain damage or doing anything does much.
Making effort to self-improve while in the fitting in nowhere pill is futile. It only appears as an illusion to think that you are making progress. But what really happens is in the big picture, the incel who is destined for this fate is still circling essentially just with a few extra steps. All in all, no amount of self-improvement of any sorts can heal the pain of not being able to fit in with anybody. Quite literally you are alone. Most men are not incels. Being an incel is much more than just being unattractive. It is a state of constant rejection from both man and woman. Every social interaction you have with others are negative. People treat you like a disease and will not entertain you. You lose out on social networking and any form of climbing up the social ladder.
Incels who attempt to break out of the Blackpill because they assume that its the mindset that causes them the pain of this life rather than accepting that such a life is caused for a reason. It is not normal to be mistreated by others regularly. Most normies exagerrate their problems. Most normies do not have the horrible lives they talk about online. Those are cherrypicked exceptions that are meant to draw in views and clicks. Most normies are living a good life with proper validation. They do not need to try hard in life. They do not need to keep trying to fit in and attempting to find a way around fitting in. They just fit in just like that without effort.
There cannot be any result because there is no solutions. Every 'solution' the incel/truecel tries is just a deadend. He backtracks to square one and tries it again. But of course, the incel/truecel doesn't want to be seen as lazy by society who judges him so he has to appear like he's trying in life out of fear of the public's thoughts on him. Most incels/truecels in this stage end up wasting their life away trying to do the impossible.
The topic of trying to fit in comes up all the time in blackpilled incel spaces. But its just hopes and dreams that will never happen. Best to accept it early on than later.
3. Likely reasons for suffering
You ask yourself 'why me?'
A) You are uglier than you think and see yourself in the mirror
B) You are extremely neurodivergent
Both are nearly impossible to fix or mask respectively. Requiring plastic surgery and as for neurodivergent traits, that's forever.
Even incels in denial can still larp as normies at times. Incels/truecels stick out like sore thumb in public.
4. No shame in failing
Again, even the most rugged tough men in the world whether it be olympians or soldiers or more would absolutely be crushed by such a lifestyle. There is no shame in failing while living under such a life. Plenty of good looking normies have a mental breakdown over the most simplistic petty thing.
5. Actual incel/truecels will experience this not fakecels/incels in denial
Hence why most 'incels' on forums who end up leaving and just so happen to join such forums in their teenagehood and have their own social cliques in real life and a actual life to pursue end up proving once again that the majority of incel forums are full of men who do no experience this. It is either one or the other. You cannot go through this and be a normie. No normie is exiled to this extent unless for very extreme situations. Normies wouldn't be a normie if they endured such a thing. Would go as far as to say that more than 50% of any given incel forums in the past, present and future are littered with fakecel/incels in denial who end up leaving after finishing their 'edgy' phase.
Ultimately be kind to one another fellow incels/truecels. This isn't going to get any better. We must show each other positive validation to make up for the lack of it from normies and society. Be kind to one another not just for the sake of it but to let the pain and inner wounds heal from the past. Life is hard enough. Show your fellow incels/truecels patience even if they test you and realize we truly are alone. Sending love and peace to all. The journey is impossible but somehow we are still here standing. That's our proof of strength against a society that hates us. Do not fall too deep into hate, its a trap by normies meant to steal your time,energy and ultimately life while they could care less about you ending up being bitter.
