International Brotherhood of Men

I look at some videos of 3rd world countries and I go "well I'm lucky to have been born in a 1st world country" beside that I was never meant to get any action, and if I did it was going to be sloppy or pity based.

I noticed the people who could get it non stop and had GF's usually had a clique of friends, and they would go to their large estate houses, they had mansions, they would throw wild parties, I got a whiff of this because my older brother took me to one of these shin digs post high school in my 30's. There we oribitors to these groups and you can tell they fence away the undesirables when the time has come because I witnessed this happen a lot and I knew I was an undesirable in their eyes and didn't even give them the chance to do that to me. Let's just say you have to have a check box of things going for you if you expect attractive women to be with you, so one would be you fit in the clique, the other would be you have a large estate with money, and if you're attractive, you'll be irresistible to them, these guys are usually very cheery and nice, can you blame them? They're having horizontal juxtaposition 4-5 times a week in the showers, in their bedrooms, in risky areas with very very attractive women that puts playboy models to dog faced 304's. Meanwhile we rot and are expected to do hard labour till we're 65 years old, all so you can be in an empty room with your fucked up mental state and health problems, I talked to a based lady at the senior building and she explained every head case there, and it tells me that's what awaits me, there's no community there, there's also these "hospice" things popping up, so good luck connecting with people who are involved in ulterior goals, they deep down hate you. A lot of losers I hung out with because birds of a feather either drug/booze/thug maxxed and the ones I couldn't seem to get a long with career maxed and became doctors or whatever from hard studying, I look at them on FB and they have a mini me version of themselves but no wife in the picture so just seems off and forced possibly by parents.

Rant over.

I run into these people and I think I'm going to get an "air pod" to put it my ear and practice like I'm in a conversation with someone so they don't' have to interface with me as they think I'm on the phone when I'm at my low tier job when I'm forced to leave the cave.

Most people in 3rd world countries can get laid

General Alek wrote: 25 Apr 2026, 13:19 Most people in 3rd world countries can get laid

I was thinking that reading my rant, I believe these things are actually prioritized and considered whereas men in our country just have to have some god tier genetics and insane luck with financial success that trickles down through their offspring, I don't have a clear answer as to why I'm screwed, but listening to women's tone of voice they would give me I could tell there's reasons why we get screwed over and it can be the tiniest of things, but minors are majors for them.

in turd world they are even inceler. Once chuds and doomers get their turd world status they get their heads chopped off. If im alive i get to laugh and shit on their faces

Sustacel250 wrote: 25 Apr 2026, 15:29 in turd world they are even inceler. Once chuds and doomers get their turd world status they get their heads chopped off. If im alive i get to laugh and shit on their faces

Wild, I have noticed my co workers can be very tiny whereas growing up I always felt small compared to my classmates, but those guys have wife and kids, it's like insult to injury.

Have you tried getting a haircut

VH911 wrote: 25 Apr 2026, 16:04 Have you tried getting a haircut

Yeah, to no avail, they say "nice haircut". I keep groomed, it's hopeless no matter what I do. I can certainly go the other way and grow my hair and blast heavy metal but that as well will do nothing.

Brootalz wrote: 25 Apr 2026, 15:57 Wild, I have noticed my co workers can be very tiny whereas growing up I always felt small compared to my classmates, but those guys have wife and kids, it's like insult to injury.

Yes im a weirdo too. I do see lots of normal people getting the normal life, which doesnt surprises me. Because they are normal and im not.

Weirdmaxing became less interesting for me. Probably I will become normal try to get a family too.

Sustacel250 wrote: 26 Apr 2026, 02:44

Brootalz wrote: 25 Apr 2026, 15:57 Wild, I have noticed my co workers can be very tiny whereas growing up I always felt small compared to my classmates, but those guys have wife and kids, it's like insult to injury.

Yes im a weirdo too. I do see lots of normal people getting the normal life, which doesnt surprises me. Because they are normal and im not.

Weirdmaxing became less interesting for me. Probably I will become normal try to get a family too.

I'm super super weird, mentalcel is what I always considered myself, i'm also in my 40s now, and I hate to say it but it's just getting more and more bleak with each passing year. I'm kinda happy though I have all this free time to just mess around but the emptiness have affected me and I come here to lurk, but I guess it's just my shitty job that prompts me to speak up. I also am tired of male friends as that's all I've had in my life and I'm just tired of the same old scene, what I mean is being a hetero male and just always having loser male friends want to be your friend gets to be really tiring. And I've had friends who drop you like a bad cold as soon as a girl comes into their life, another blow that woke me up. I also find women can't comprehend us and they just brush it off or even worse laugh at your qualms.

Brootalz wrote: 26 Apr 2026, 04:05 I'm super super weird, mentalcel is what I always considered myself, i'm also in my 40s now, and I hate to say it but it's just getting more and more bleak with each passing year. I'm kinda happy though I have all this free time to just mess around but the emptiness have affected me and I come here to lurk, but I guess it's just my shitty job that prompts me to speak up. I also am tired of male friends as that's all I've had in my life and I'm just tired of the same old scene, what I mean is being a hetero male and just always having loser male friends want to be your friend gets to be really tiring. And I've had friends who drop you like a bad cold as soon as a girl comes into their life, another blow that woke me up. I also find women can't comprehend us and they just brush it off or even worse laugh at your qualms.

im an older male weirdo as well. I gotta try be less weirdo, so I wont be able to help you become normal.

as for foids, i have diff opinion, but i dont get to talk to many of them. In the past i talked to more foids, now is zero basically

Sustacel250 wrote: 26 Apr 2026, 04:19

Brootalz wrote: 26 Apr 2026, 04:05 I'm super super weird, mentalcel is what I always considered myself, i'm also in my 40s now, and I hate to say it but it's just getting more and more bleak with each passing year. I'm kinda happy though I have all this free time to just mess around but the emptiness have affected me and I come here to lurk, but I guess it's just my shitty job that prompts me to speak up. I also am tired of male friends as that's all I've had in my life and I'm just tired of the same old scene, what I mean is being a hetero male and just always having loser male friends want to be your friend gets to be really tiring. And I've had friends who drop you like a bad cold as soon as a girl comes into their life, another blow that woke me up. I also find women can't comprehend us and they just brush it off or even worse laugh at your qualms.

im an older male weirdo as well. I gotta try be less weirdo, so I wont be able to help you become normal.

as for foids, i have diff opinion, but i dont get to talk to many of them. In the past i talked to more foids, now is zero basically

Oh I should of said this is at the workplace, I also have realized I should of been more anti social as it never makes it any better when they know more about me. Women outside of work, lol queue the crickets sound.

General Alek wrote: 25 Apr 2026, 13:19 Most people in 3rd world countries can get laid

Just want to say I lurked .is and was never able to make an account after I terminated one when they flamed my account the next day logging on, but it was my picture they had a problem with (it was a badly burned dude talking about his girlfriend in the subtitle but they missed the point of it) but I will say I always enjoyed your posts. I ended finding this place through a hit piece of youtube. When they said you were on the line on the podcast I got excited, but you didn't say anything and that's okay anonymity is fine. I also used to watch FaceLMS, I suppose wheat waffles is like the remnants of that (though he does redpill content but I like brutal stats that emphasize the unfair situation).

Brootalz wrote: 26 Apr 2026, 04:21 Oh I should of said this is at the workplace, I also have realized I should of been more anti social as it never makes it any better when they know more about me. Women outside of work, lol queue the crickets sound.

this is a conondrum.

My reasoning so far has been this one: normie life never gave me pussy, so i will weirdomax. Its not that weirdomaxing is giving me any pussy either, but if I compare 2 choices both of which giving me no pussy, I will pick the one I like the most subjectively.

However, I dont have idea if it was the right choice, so I wont be able to help you. Because my choice too didnt bear results. My choice was the same as normiemaxing. If both are the same, I reasoned that whatever you pick is irrelevant.

In my little life i simply try to normiemax a little. Its difficult because social tensions, because to define "normal" became hard, and because norms in general are eroding. So I may find myself in a situation where "return to norms" is not even an option. Or I would find myself thinking I am weird, only to find out the normies made in time to become even weirder than I am. Like, nowadays everyone has parasocial relationshits, so if I escape from the internet I may find myself weirdo again, because everyone is online on socials now.

There is also the chance that "normal life" is not even real, so I in that case im more screwed than I thought.

Thats why i dont advise anythin. I didnt fix it.