Dont tell normies your plans in life.
Posted: 15 Feb 2026, 05:44
Some normies care about your success, but it's always framed within the terms of the system. What I mean about "care" is they seem interested in giving you advice.
Advice they give you, does not relates to your plan for your lifetime. And I do think normies are sincere because they see the world as a rational explanation. Normies listen to life coaches or courses in economics and they think "that is life", that is how things realy work.
This is what giulio ebola calls "the reality of life". Is this shared idea generated with narratives about what is our world all about.
What I noticed in my own life, is that I clash with the system of meaning of the normies, so my reality is not their reality. There is a difference and we cannot coexist.
Advice from normies assumes the ultimate legitimacy of existing institutions like the idea of career ideology, the credential are all rules of nature treated as if they were geological formations naturally occurring "on their own". Social conformity and mating is also treated as a "rule of life" as if these things happeend on their own. Love ideology, dating ideology, mating practices, I rejected all of them when I was a teenager, and normies didnt. Normies think love is like a river or a bunch of trees naturally occurring "on their own".
No normie can know what is in my head or how I see relationship or what I want from life. Which is why their advice may be kind and I often thank them, it will never apply to me.
I think normies experience the social structures as "natural", they dont think they are constructed. The normies talk about geology, about mountains or about trees, is the way they perceive dating ideology for instance. But I was alive when sexual revolution ended (2010) and I seen the shift in society and everyone changed rules, demonstrating the previous rules were not eternal.
I think things like MMA demonstrates an idea. I mean mixed martial arts. They demonstrated that power, skill, trickery and strategy defeat martial arts, defeat wrestling, defeat impostors. Why Im making such a comparison with the world of fighting? Because in the past normies believed the construct of wrestling, or the construct of the martial art. But it happened a revolution as potent as the blackpill revolution in 2010. It happened a new idea was affirmed and the past idea ended.
Lookism isnt the only idea that won in the battlefield. When lookism affirmed itself, it won against the idea of intellectual domination, the idea of love ideology and the idea of meeting of the minds the normies previously had. These examples merely show to you that the world normies think is "ultimate reality" is nothing but a construct. And we are right pursuing our personal life, or live life like is art.
This is why I dont think anything a normie says (even if sincere) can apply to the incel who acquired this power of creation.
Advice they give you, does not relates to your plan for your lifetime. And I do think normies are sincere because they see the world as a rational explanation. Normies listen to life coaches or courses in economics and they think "that is life", that is how things realy work.
This is what giulio ebola calls "the reality of life". Is this shared idea generated with narratives about what is our world all about.
What I noticed in my own life, is that I clash with the system of meaning of the normies, so my reality is not their reality. There is a difference and we cannot coexist.
Advice from normies assumes the ultimate legitimacy of existing institutions like the idea of career ideology, the credential are all rules of nature treated as if they were geological formations naturally occurring "on their own". Social conformity and mating is also treated as a "rule of life" as if these things happeend on their own. Love ideology, dating ideology, mating practices, I rejected all of them when I was a teenager, and normies didnt. Normies think love is like a river or a bunch of trees naturally occurring "on their own".
No normie can know what is in my head or how I see relationship or what I want from life. Which is why their advice may be kind and I often thank them, it will never apply to me.
I think normies experience the social structures as "natural", they dont think they are constructed. The normies talk about geology, about mountains or about trees, is the way they perceive dating ideology for instance. But I was alive when sexual revolution ended (2010) and I seen the shift in society and everyone changed rules, demonstrating the previous rules were not eternal.
I think things like MMA demonstrates an idea. I mean mixed martial arts. They demonstrated that power, skill, trickery and strategy defeat martial arts, defeat wrestling, defeat impostors. Why Im making such a comparison with the world of fighting? Because in the past normies believed the construct of wrestling, or the construct of the martial art. But it happened a revolution as potent as the blackpill revolution in 2010. It happened a new idea was affirmed and the past idea ended.
Lookism isnt the only idea that won in the battlefield. When lookism affirmed itself, it won against the idea of intellectual domination, the idea of love ideology and the idea of meeting of the minds the normies previously had. These examples merely show to you that the world normies think is "ultimate reality" is nothing but a construct. And we are right pursuing our personal life, or live life like is art.
This is why I dont think anything a normie says (even if sincere) can apply to the incel who acquired this power of creation.