Validation and ascension.

[Sustacel250]

I felt for a long time that validation and ascension were the 2 real problems of incel community. Its not lack of sex or anything, its about these 2 things. And since we are usually reluctant to talk about our motivations we never fix validation and ascension.

Everyone of us have different problems. Some people are misfits and rejects (I am in this group). Others are mentally ill taking pharma, institutionalized living a life managed by state functionaries. For example Brio/Tristman was such a case, he was institutionalized because he had an IQ of 80 points and despite he looked quite good and was musclemaxed he was never able to touch a woman. Because Brio/tristman couldnt physically touch them, he posed near female models without even touching them... because he had tremendous autism. Of course he cant fuck if he has that level of autism.

Other incels are ugly. Ugly people obviously will have severe difficulties, in life, not only with women. Ugly people can never become high status, not even in the field of philosophy at times. Being hot looking determines even the careers in the intellectual professions believe it or not. Its a curse for sure to be ugly. And what I find worse about it is how ugly people are so much shamed and considered evil, that some of them really become evil as a result of this.

But in any case, a majority of these people will talk often about validation and lack of respect and the idea many have is "ascension", a state of mind where their problems disappeared. Validation is this idea of "I matter, I am not defective I want my place in the world". And ascension is "I have moved up in life, im not anymore at the bottom, I finally can be a human".

Now, framing all these complex things as just "lack of sex" is a disservice and we are behaving exactly like normies who tell us "get sex incel". Nah, sex isnt all in life, and we should know it better than any normie does. Its all about rejection, mockery, exclusion, being infantilized, treated like a victim, being inside an institution taking stupid pharma unable to care for yourself, its about not being a worm, a miserable reject hated by society. This is inceldom.

Ascension is just a way to escape humiliation, and its a forum utopia because promises people a break from a painful past, one day the incel will have the warm embrace of a woman, who knows the incel maybe also desires a community. I would generalize it as a status fantasy. And if we keep pretending is simply about sex, I believe we will never fix inceldom and instead we can even end up inflicting normie wounds on ourselves.

I mean lets be honest, men are not only material being that can be given food and housing and our life is gona be resolved. We need more, like myths and identity and status and a direction in life. Which is why these manipulators on social media promoting religions have the success they have. Why do you think chads with designer haircut follow orthodox christianity? In theory these chads are the pinnacle of achievement and they get sex. But despite of that, these chads feel like "i lack something" so they get captured by algorithms on tiktok, such is the state of their deprivation they end up handled like donkeys and end up following religion and ideology.

With this shitpost I would like to open an analysis on validation and ascension, which I think are the 2 most honest concepts out of incel community. The rest of incel community can get into the toilet and is garbage. But validation and ascension are 2 useful things.