do you also have pussy insecurity?

[Sustacel250]

Or virgin insecurity. Whatever the current name is. I can say this was my main problem when I was a youngcel. No idea about you. I read online some incels are hyper confident and go approach endless women and get rejected by them. And women act like some sort of reality barriers for these incels. Women show reality to the incel, one piece at a time. And these hyper confident incels for some reason are also slow learners, they need truth to be repeated to hem countless times.

In my case, I had truth embedded into my behaviors and I had what is called "pussy insecurity" basically a situation that I had to transcend. How I interpreted pussy insecurity is Normie life embedded deep into my bones. All what normies think of me is what I thought of myself. Youre virgin = trash of society. And I think these things also impacted heavily my social performances and my life choices.

Context: My culture says having sex is the ultimate value. Boasting sex gains you respect of boomers and normies. Talking about sex is the daily life of all of us. Not having sex = mentally ill. The most generous of the normies instead of calling you mentally ill could simply call you "insecure" or "beta". In other words they crush your soul and your masculinity is defined by them. Everyone is anxious and eager to be approved by the collective. You are approved only if you boast woman encounters or if there is a reputation that you are a sexhaver. The entire culture is feminist but at the same time men are expected to be alpha machismo brodude, as if the 2 things are even compatible... but dont expect normies to reason around these issues they just behave like feral beasts of the jungle.

All my youth conversations rotated around "who fucks who" and later with the introduction of social media it slightly changed into who was replied by a popular foid on socials. Or who had an instagram story or who was the latest fuck of the foid mini celebrity on a social media. After fecesbook came out, chads started to count how many women they were able to entertain on the internet. In my generation an avg was 1000 for each chad. Later it became 10 thousand. I dont know how much is now because I stopped following normie media around 2016.

Inceldom didnt exist like is now. And at the time I was focused on my pussy insecurity and how to overcome it. I will tell you I simply didnt overcome it but I built myself around it. Strangely, a decade of inceldom gave me a severe confidence boost. Just accepting that "people like me" exist. Or just finding others like me on the internet, that was already enough to cancel the idea Im a minority. And later, the idea of challenging foids and popular normie beliefs... and winning at it... made me even stronger. Little steps made me better. Now I will say I didnt ever remove all the problems I had, overall I made them even worse, but I think I made the right choice becoming an incel instead of a subservient normie.