Normie social skills are useless.

[Sustacel250]

First off let me say that I seen the ideology of "social skills" truly workin for something only in north EU. Basically they are not generic they dont say "social skills" generically, they just ask person to person which environment he lived in and what did he or she learn. Its obvious that everyone has "social skills".

For example If I had to open a club I would want to hire these women who can undermine club reputations and pay them to transfer normies from rival clubs into mine. That is a "social skill" I would be interested in. Or, also in clubbing, I would want to pay these chadlites who know women and can position in the sexual tourism areas to entice tourists to enter my club, that is another specific "social skill" I would be interested in.

But the same "social skill" of these normies would be pointless if I had a construction company. If I had such a company I would be much more interested in acquiring contacts with mafia and insurance policy sleazy salesmen and have many friends in local administration. Because different job different "social skils".

In normie parlance "social skill" refers to hyper specific practices you mostly use in city areas and they are not even that well understood by them. For example, skills like "talking topeople" or smalltalk or dating ideology. Is for an illusion these skills seem universal, in reality they are quite specific and mostly work in urban cosmopolitan cities and specific areas. They dont work for example in the whole of berlin, they will work in the city areas where cosmopolitan attitudes are in place. And the same set of skills will work exactly the same in milan or paris, provided you are in the cosmopolitan area.

You could also say that social skills do not exist but its more about having competence in a specific area. In that situation it matters where you grew up, which institutions you interacted with and what was the incentives you dealt with. For instance status money safety or whatever. Pleasure isnt even universal.

The issue of normie social skills is they are optimized for cosmopolitan hipster lifestyle, they dont work for anything else. They are optimized for offices, cafes, dating apps, coworker communal communist spaces, conferences, they are all filtered by HR managerial karens so without this motherly figure their skills drop in the toilet. Put them in a situation where theres different incentives they dont even know what to do their brain is bugged and they have a normie-bot short circuit.

What normies say about "talking to people" is probably the greatest misconception about this topic of "social skils". Almost universally all normies attribute to the idea of "talking to people" this magnificent importance and is supposed to be fix all problems. They advice it on reddit, they advise it on life coaching (even to ER they advised it) or they say is the most essential. Its all a sham.
Imagine it like this, someone tells you to "use tools". Its super generic. You can ask "which tools". A scalpel? a crowbar? a spreadsheet? Rubber stamp? What tool? what are they talking about. You need a tool for a task. Just having "tools" doesnt means much.

Conversations is not 1 single skill. This is the normie mistake. Because their illusion of universality and egalitarianism is ideological is not reality and isnt even practical. Calling these things "social skills" misleads a lot of incels on the internet who feel inadequate because they fatigue communicating with cosmopolitan hipsters in the city areas. Same incels will talk smoothly with their incel pals, and have no problem whatsoever. They dont lack "social skills" at all. Its only normies are fooled by ideologies like egalitarianism an universal cosmopolitan morality.

Cosmopolitan areas are super small compared to the rest of the planet areas. The normie "social skills" are a cope. Egalitarianism is a lie.

For now only in some north EU places this is understood. But in the vast majority of city areas the normies will be obnoxious absolutists who enforce the only "social skills" they know. They possess no cognitive flexibility, instead of adapting they demand of you to adapt to their cosmopolitan model.

What to do if you are incel: You tell normies clearly "I do not conform to this dogshit". He conforms to our incel ways or he gets the fuck out. We incels are perfectly adapted to our situation. Its normies who are not adapted. We make the rules now that we are incel. This is the attitude I recommend.