International Brotherhood of Men

"What is the point?"

Think about it. Everything a man could do, in order to improve his life in some way. Exercise/ getting in shape, quitting smoking, earning more money, getting a degree, joining the military, finding religion. Anything else that we can do, or are lectured to do by normies who think the issue is far simpler than it really is.

Why do we do these things? What's the payoff?

If we don't do them, we're told that we are failures and will never have a romantic partner. But what if we (or a guy we know) does do them, and nothing changes? What if the final number of guests at our eventual funeral doesn't increase?

The thing is, if there were some consistent, empirical way to guarantee social acceptance, success, happiness including a family or other things, then it would be no problem. We would happily do all this and more. However, we are also lectured that we aren't "owed anything", and "aren't entitled to anything." So why, in the holy FUCK, would we bother doing anything to improve our lives? What's our motivation?

If we are demonized from the beginning, and face rejection from every angle from a young age, then there really is no point.

For many men, the only final purpose is revenge. And that's why certain men are viewed with a level of disdain and suspicion, even when they tried to do everything right.

I want to make one thing crystal clear: I ain't advocating or encouraging "revenge" or violence. I'm merely stating why that's the case for some men.

Some men who do have families still feel cheated overall, and still choose violence, even if they are not technically "incel".

IBG wrote: 02 Jan 2026, 09:23 if there were some consistent, empirical way to guarantee social acceptance, success, happiness including a family or other things, then it would be no problem.

You are coping.

There are many ways to achieve social acceptance that work.

there is mormons, jehovah witness, even the basic catholic group works.

But this is a cope, its what people say "if only i lived in a nice community" but they never move to that place.

For example, I am poor but I live in a rich city. My city is awesome. We have parks and clean air, nice hospital. If I wanted I could go in a lowIQ poor area any day of the week, and rich people would stop mogging me. But I dont do it I want to stay in proximity of rich highIQ people, not lowIQ scum of the planet.

If you wanted, you could snap your fingers, and join a lowIQ mormon group, but you dont do it. You cope with inceldom. Im serious, if yuo wanted you could snap your fingers and tomorrow you are socially integrated. But you will never do it. I will never do it either. I rather stay incel than join a lowIQ normie group.