Normal Vs Abnormal

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First Impressions

Normal

Normies treat you decently. You smile, they smile. Their body language is welcoming and warm. You feel comfortable expressing yourself. You can tell that things are going well and you see this as a win-win as you both can benefit of the company of one another and you feel good as they do too.

Abnormal

They don't even know you, but their face turns into a mix of repulsion and disgust. You try to smile, they return a frown or a mean mug. You try to connect with them via activities, they keep sending negative signals body language and even verbally straight up telling you that they don't like you. They intend for you to get the memo that you are not welcomed or invited in the future. They want you to know your place and that you are not to defy that order from them.

Socializing

Normal

You don't worry about being alone. Someone or something always comes up. They approach you and ask you how's your day. Its easy to arrange future gatherings with them because they are willing. They don't mind spending their time trying to strike up a conversation with you. In fact, they invite you to eat and be with them on the weekends.

Abnormal

You notice no one notices you. So you try to be sociable and spark a brief talk. Only for them to try to cut it short every time without fail. They will make up excuses and say they are busy or even just straight up ignore you and walk away.

Assistance

Normal

You need help and you ask them for help in etc. They are more than happy to guide you through the process. They will go into details and be patient with you even if you're slow. They will pamper you with a good load of positive reinforcements throughout even when you fail in understanding. You feel good knowing that even if you are stuck with an issue you can always contact them and turn to them and they'll be glad to assist you. You can tell that they care and you feel motivated to learn as they help you grasp new knowledge.

Abnormal

You need help and you ask for it, They tell you to ask someone else. They may feel sympathy and help but its clear that they do not want to. Their face is of frustration and when you ask them a simple question they subtly show annoyance and discomfort in the presence of you. They impatiently look around and end up leaving and making an excuse to go. You learnt nothing. You realize that if you needed help you would have to find a way to help yourself since no one would be there.


What happens is that incels are told that its normal to experience the 'abnormal' section above.
They'll be gaslighted and told that they're just being insecure and that they ran across the wrong person.
Its easy for your therapist and confidants to say so but in reality this isn't normal whatsoever especially when it happens on a regular basis.
This is what it means to be unattractive.
Practically no attractive person or even average looking person is treated as such in the abnormal section.
If average people were treated like the abnormal section, the world would not function since average people make up most of the Earth. They would be too discouraged to even do anything. In reality most average people are doing ok.
So that means that only the below average are experiencing the abnormal treatment.
Meaning that you have to be below average to be treated poorly.